oBsErVaTiOnS

I actually thought that once I am in Abuja, I will be able to blog everyday but it has turned out so difficult due to my laziness but actually, the truth is I am always in and out of the house, eating or just chatting with a friend. In summary, I am always occupied.

In the past one week, I have made so many friends. I don’t know where to start from but I hope I am not hunted in the future for this because they all want something from me. This all boils down to the question that “how come the ones we want , are the ones we just never get?” It’s very painful because those we don’t want all just throw themselves at us. My story starts from here…We just met, we saw once, after that we are meant to leave it for fate to decide if our paths we cross again or destiny will catch up with us. You call me everyday, this is so odd, you make me promise to send you voice notes, I just hope I don’t see you in my dream because this will turn into ma hunt lol… We might just never see again and I don’t know how to do offshore relationships, I suck at them. By the time you are back I will be out of this town because home beckons on me.

Once upon a time, I couldn’t do without thinking about you, I promised myself what happens in Lagos remains in Lagos. The truth is that I still have a soft spot for you because you were like a dream come true. I know we both made efforts to see each other which were hindered one way or the other. Maybe we are just meant to be friends and when I say friends I mean cool close friends. Don’t worry, by God’s grace I will still try my best to see you before you go back for the continuation of your B.sc bear with me and tarry for awhile.

My observations go on and on but now there is a new friend who seems to be closer to my heart than I can imagine. I will leave the story for some other time… I know some of you are like “this Ehi has started with his confusion again”, don’t mind me fellas, I am single till its time for marriage I promise you that. But all I will say is that you all should hold on to me because my story is about to change. I have gone back to my drawing board to reconstruct my blue print and guess what? It’s time to enrich my C.V, the certificates have to start rolling in. NYSC is here, I am really confused, I don’t know where to chook my head o. Many companies have something to offer, the right move just has to click but will it be LNG, MTN, GLO, Schlumberger or better still Chevron? But can I stand working in the same environment with Ose?…destiny will tell.

This place is really different from home. I observed that crave for religion is so high. Let me give you an instance, the roads here are so free but on getting to the auditorium by 0600hours for first service{which is slated for 0630hrs}, it is already packed full. Na wa o! When in Lagos, people are still crashing tight…Something funny actually happened last week Sunday, I cannot still believe I was the victim. Handkerchiefs blessed by the Bishop were handed to the crowd. All of a sudden, the one meant for me, an elderly man and a woman in her mid forties grabbed it. It was a state of shock for me because they where meant to attend the next service, they couldn’t just wait till their turn. Na so I dey look them o, the woman was crying {not with tears sha} that please she wants the handkerchief, but the man did not care. They kept on struggling and dragging, it was causing a scene, na wa for religion everybody wan reach heaven sha. I must get there to.

My stay here is almost over but I am glad about the network of friends I was able to create. NYSC here will be fun but I just think home is home…Just one more official mission in this town and I am good to go, ciao!

I am very serious

Thoughts from the mind:

 When you are feeling alone like no one cares, read this because it’s absolutely true: Every night, someone thinks about you before they go to sleep. At least fifteen people in this world love you. The only reason someone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. There are at least two people in this world that would die for you. You mean the world to someone. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look. Always remember the compliments you've received, forget the rude remarks. Thank You for being my friend!